Is the public version of you the real you?

We all think we’re being real—whether in public or in private—but the deeper challenge is questioning whether we truly know our real selves at all. In any case, even when we know ourselves we might face various pressures that push us to fit in or not cause trouble – so even the most well-intentioned person might struggle to always be 100% real in public. Sometimes the simplest questions are actually the most complex. Thankfully, we have some wonderful members of the community who offered to share their thoughts on this challenging question.

Theophilus Caviness

Most of the time I would say, yes. It pretty much depends on the environment, but I tend to make myself feel comfortable in uncomfortable situations. The public version is the typically the real me. I don’t shift much because I value authenticity and consistency. Read more>>

Devon Carter

The whole idea behind REAL is to be true to who you are. I try to embody that mindset everyday through my actions. Two of our REAL Values are honesty and loyalty. These two core values are extremely important regarding the work we do. When we meet with schools, students, parents, etc. Read more>>

Abby Shaner

I’d say the public version of me is mostly the real me… just a little more polished around the edges. And a filter on the top. Read more>>